About Support Beyond Stigma

The goal of SBS is to provide an online community of support and understanding for the loved ones of individuals accused or convicted of possession of child sexual abuse material (CSAM), also known as child abuse material (CAM) and formerly referred to as child pornography. We recognize the existence and online circulation of such material is a grave and deeply distressing issue, which causes immense harm to victims and their families worldwide. Our intent is not to diminish the suffering endured by victims, but to acknowledge the complex ripple effects these cases have on all affected, including the families of those accused.

In 2025 alone, the CyberTipline received 21.3 million reports that included more than 61.8 million images (NCMEC), videos and other files related to suspected child sexual exploitation - a number that continues to rise at an alarming pace. Each case represents a tragedy, first and foremost for the victims and their families, but also a profound challenge for the families of those accused or convicted. These families, sometimes referred to as secondary victims, often face sudden isolation, confusion, and stigma, while trying to navigate the emotional and legal complexities that follow.

Importantly, individuals accused or convicted of CSAM possession are not a monolithic group. Cases can involve people of any age or background, including young people who may not fully understand the gravity or illegality of their actions. As technology evolves, the risks and exposures change as well with illegal material becoming more accessible through mainstream search engines and social media platforms. More and more often, headlines of CSAM arrests include individuals of all ages, but an incredible increase of arrests among Generation Z (those born between 1997 and 2012). The same will be true for Generation Alpha, those born between 2013 and 2025)

This has contributed to a global crisis affecting countless families and communities. In fact, there is a rising 1.5 billion dollar trend in Digital Wellness Apps - many focused on porn addiction.   Online pornography has had an extremely negative influence on Generation Z. Take for instance the Quittr App, which according to its co-founders Alex Slater and Connor McLaren is “a porn-recovery app, designed to help you regain control and live with purpose. Whether you’re looking to cut down or quit entirely, QUITTR’s neuroscience-backed system helps you reshape your relationship with porn, sex, and dopamine.”

According to an article by Deborah Fry in The Conversation International, a meta-study found that over 300 million young people globally have experienced online sexual abuse or exploitation. In 2023, more than 36 million reports regarding online sexual images of children were filed by technology companies and members of the public—a staggering statistic that underscores the scale and urgency of the issue.

Another layer of concern is the increasing exposure of children and teens to online pornography and digital risk behaviors. Research by Megan K. Maas, Assistant Professor at Michigan State University, highlights that three out of four teenagers have viewed online pornography, often before adolescence, and issues like sexting and digital exploitation are on the rise.

If your loved one has been accused of such a serious crime, it is natural to feel overwhelmed and isolated. The intention of this website is to offer guidance, insights, research, and—most importantly—a supportive community. We strive to address the needs of loved ones without ever forgetting the profound harm suffered by victims, fostering an environment of empathy, information, and hope as you navigate an incredibly difficult journey.

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Common Sense Media ®, one of the nation’s leading nonprofit organizations dedicated to improving the lives of children by providing trustworthy information to families issued a reportin 2022 discussing how teens are engaging with pornography online. The statistics are startling, with more than 71 percent of US teen respondents acknowledging they viewed pornography within the last week. What is even more disturbing is 63 percent came across pornography accidentally.

“Parents didn’t raise a group of sexually dysfunctional teens and young adults - the internet did!”

Mother of a 22-year-old son, accused of possessing CSAM

Support for Families Navigating Digital Offense (CSAM) Challenges

When a family member or loved one faces a digital offense accusation, investigation, or conviction, the immediate emotional and legal shock can feel entirely isolating. Support Beyond Stigma and our platform, csamsupport.org, exist to fill a critical gap. We provide dedicated, trauma-aware support specifically for families and secondary victims. You do not have to carry the weight of social stigma, registry complexities, or systemic isolation alone.

How We Hope the Information on this Site May Help Families Move Forward

  • Comprehensive Learning Center: Access information on legal processes, housing security, re-entry navigation, and mental wellness.

  • Reducing Secondary Stigma: We advocate for the mental health and safety of family members who are often the unrecognized casualties of digital legal crises (CSAM) by providing relevant news and resources.

  • Peer Forums: Subscribe to the SBS Community Forum. A secure and private community facing identical family and social challenges.

Frequently Asked Questions About Digital Offense (CSAM) Family Support

  • What unique resources are available for families affected by a loved one's digital offense?

    • Families often face severe secondary stigma, isolation, and sudden legal chaos. Our platform provides information relevant to mental health coping frameworks, law and technology, and prisons and reentry designed specifically to help secondary victims cope.

  • How does Support Beyond Stigma assist families during a legal investigation or conviction?

    • We do not offer legal advice. However, there are articles in the Learning Center that can assist with understanding important legal information. Additionally, there are resources on managing localized social stigma, understanding the psychological impact of digital crime allegations on the home, and preparing for the re-entry and registry realities of a family member.

  • Is there a safe online community for parents and spouses dealing with digital legal prosecution?

    • Yes. The Community Forum Waitlist aims to provide this type of platform and will offer a strictly moderated, trauma-informed space where parents, spouses, and family members can connect, share advice, and reduce isolation without fear of public judgment. We are hopeful that the interest expressed so far continues, so that we can launch the live forum.

Our goal is to provide compassionate guidance, resources, and a community for secondary victims of the stigma associated with CSAM and digital offense accusations.
— Support Beyond Stigma